The Women’s Temple…. the Mall.
Start to sow your seeds in this feminine rallying point.
By Strawberry
Ahhh yes, here we are at the mall. Credit card heaven for retailers and women. But finding the one you want depends on the store you visit and of course as always, the LOCATION. I would suggest that you not visit a mall in an area particularly populated by seniors unless you are looking for a woman in that age range. So, just like the food stores we discussed in Part 1, you want to choose one within a college campus area or a more younger populated area should you desire a woman of that particular age range. If you are looking for an even younger girl, I say try the local carnival or Baby Depot. In that case, this article may not appeal to you stroller snatchers.

Now, know your stores and if you don’t here is an example to help you. My experience in both shopping and finding a woman has led me to the following conclusion.

If I am “shopping” for a woman of my age, which is 27, I would go to a trendy store or a store with more of a marketing approach to women of my age. Such as Bath & Body Works, Frederick’s of Hollywood, G&G, Wet Seal, Joyce Leslie etc etc. If I were interested in meeting a woman who is more career orientated, maybe in her thirties possibly a bit older I would try Macys, JC Penny’s even Victoria Secret. For someone a little older if I were you I would try Lord & Taylor, possibly even Stern’s. Scary that I think like this, isn’t it?

But these days you have to. It is increasingly harder to find women and even harder to hold on to them once you do. They, not all but most, are either more career orientated these days or more materialistic. On some occasions you find both qualities in the same woman. This is okay if they choose to self support themselves, but many times I find they are just looking for someone to “take care” of them. I am not looking to give them spending money, wash their clothes or fix their car. I am sure you are not either. Hell, they are lucky if I toast a bagel for them the morning after sex. So, choose wisely and think before hand.

Most women are very “picky” when it comes to finding a man. You could be the most perfect one in their eyes and all you need to do is wear a blue flannel versus a green one and it’s all over. They are choosy and most don’t settle for less and NEITHER SHOULD YOU. So shop around, so to speak, until you find the one you want, whether it is for just a casual or intimate or long lasting relationship. And be assertive in what you say. If you meet her in the mall and want to take her to the food court for lunch say it, straight out, don’t beat around the bush. What is she going to say? NO. Oh well, she’s not the only female in the mall. Don’t act too pathetic either. If you act like not having lunch with her is going to lead you to cutting your wrists, you’d be surprised how many of them will hand you a razor. So just blow it off in that nice way by saying maybe another time and then walk away, which really implies you’re loss, bitch.

You also have to understand that many, especially the younger aged ones, live more on their own these days. Which is a plus for you men. This means they make more trips to the food store, home depot and gas stations then they would if they lived at home with their parents or someone else and had someone doing these things for them. So, look around the next time you are in a hardware store. You’d be surprised how many single women visit them, especially on the weekends.

On a last note, for this brief article about the mall, I say remember it is spring. Women love flowers, many of them plant their own. So, check out the local floral nurseries, the flower departments at your local Home Depot or Lowe’s and don’t forget the food store. Many times they sell plants outside of their entrance door. So, whatcha waiting for cowboy? It’s time to hoe your field. Just don’t be so quick to plant your seeds unless of course you want to deal with her for the next 18 years. Happy shopping and happy sowing!